COACHING
Why should I work with a coach?
I'll accelerate your learning and performance by: tailoring your learning to target specific areas for improvement, providing support towards your goals, guiding you through ambiguity, helping you identify your blind spots, challenging your beliefs and assumptions about yourself, and pushing you outside your comfort zone.
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What makes you qualified as a dating coach?
I’ve developed a deep understanding of dating and relationships through over a decade of experience and personal growth. I struggled with dating in high school and college, but in my mid-twenties, I committed to improving my relational skills. I made a lot of mistakes, learned from them, and steadily built the competence that now defines my approach. Today, I’m able to help other men navigate similar challenges with insight and empathy.
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Professionally, I’ve thrived in coaching roles throughout my career. Whether as a teacher guiding my students or a manager leading my employees, I have considerable experience helping people learn and grow. My master’s degree in Leadership Studies sharpened by coaching skills even further through courses in human relations, cognition and learning, and foundations of coaching. ​​This blend of lived experience and formal training equips me to help clients.
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What types of men do you work with?
​I help smart and ambitious men who are motivated to improve themselves. My clients range from young professionals struggling with social anxiety, divorced men who are feeling out of touch with modern dating, or busy professionals who are late bloomers. What they all have in common is a desire for romantic relationships.
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What is your coaching philosophy?​
The learning, growth, and change of my client is the primary purpose of the relationship. ​The coaching sessions help you understand you and your situation, but the crucial part of coaching is helping you move from insight to action. It's about partnering with you to create a solid path to progress and achieve specific goals.​​​​ I'll provide the support to help you move from where you are to where you want to be.
Will you help me with online dating?
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Yes, I'll give you feedback on your dating profile, but the majority of coaching for online dating will focus on developing early-stage messaging skills like openers, building attraction, and arranging a date.
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What can I expect during a coaching session?
​We'll discuss different frameworks, concepts, and strategies to help you achieve your goals, debrief your real world experiences, and answer any of your questions. A coaching topic can also involve talking about a recent challenge or reflecting on your progress since the last session. Before concluding each session, we'll take a moment to reflect on what you learned and establish concrete actions you can commit to before the next session.
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Will you tell me exactly what to do?
​You’ll get a mix of guidance, insight, and practical strategies. I don’t believe in one-size-fits-all scripts or rigid rules, but I won’t leave you guessing either. When it’s helpful or solicited, I’ll offer suggestions on what to say and provide real life examples to guide your next steps. The goal is to equip you with the tools to think and act for yourself, not become reliant on a coach.
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​How long will it take to see results?
That depends on your starting point, your goals, and how much effort you're willing to put in. Some men see shifts within the first few sessions, but for deeper results, it usually takes a few months of consistent work. For someone with little to no dating experience, that journey may realistically take up to two years. Remember: it's about real change. My goal is to give you the tools, mindset, and feedback you need to get lasting results.